Community leaders came together in Dardanelle, Arkansas to uncover aspects of domestic violence that are often overlooked, from the challenges survivors face to the systemic barriers they encounter. The discussion featured important truths that might challenge common perceptions.
The panelists were Chris Harper, a pastor with Home Church, Mary Thompson, executive director of Samaritan and Regional Health, and Linda Bankston from the River Valley Shelter for Battered Women and Children. They each shared their unique perspectives on the complexities of domestic violence.
Chris Harper brought attention to the non-physical aspects of domestic violence. “Many people think of abuse only in terms of physical harm, but emotional and financial control are just as damaging,” he explained. “Survivors often come to us not with bruises, but with broken spirits and an inability to access their own money or resources.”
Mary Thompson highlighted the often-overlooked effects of domestic violence on children. “A lot of people don’t realize that kids in abusive homes suffer just as much, even if they aren’t directly harmed,” she shared. “Exposure to violence can leave them with lifelong trauma and a higher risk of becoming victims or perpetrators themselves."
Linda Bankston addressed a question many people ask: why don’t survivors just leave? “It’s not that simple,” she said. “Leaving often means walking away from your entire life—your home, your job, and even your social circle. For many, the fear of homelessness or losing their children is overwhelming.”
Harper emphasized how abusers often isolate their victims to maintain control. “Isolation is a powerful tool,” he explained. “Cutting someone off from their family and friends makes it harder for them to reach out for help, and many people underestimate just how lonely and trapped survivors feel.”
Thompson noted that navigating the legal system can be a major hurdle. “Getting a restraining order or custody of your children can be an uphill battle,” she said. “Without legal advocacy, many survivors feel like the system isn’t on their side.”
Bankston stressed the importance of long-term support. “Shelters are crucial, but they’re just the first step,” she explained. “Survivors need help rebuilding their lives—finding jobs, stable housing, and healing emotionally. That’s where the real work begins.”
The panelists agreed that raising awareness about the hidden aspects of domestic violence is crucial. “We need to stop asking why survivors stay and start asking how we can help them leave safely,” said Harper. Thompson echoed this sentiment: “Education is key. The more we understand, the better equipped we are to offer meaningful support.”
“Domestic violence is everyone’s issue. It’s happening in our neighborhoods, our workplaces, and even our families. Change starts with awareness, and awareness starts with conversations like these,” said Bankston.
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